on invitations and rsvp

i honestly don't understand why some people do not respond to invitations. when an important event is to be held, normally the host sends out invites to inform the people concerned of the said affair. may it be sent thru formal invitation cards, e-invites, or even just thru a text message, an inivitation should be honored, thus the favor of a reply is expected.

you are invited primarily because you are an important person, and being that, the host wants to share with you that special moment --this, you should realize. thus, the option of not going should not be entertained, or you do not say you're tired or just having a bad day. save your lame excuses mister! you should learn how to value. in some circumstances though, say your schedule does not permit you, the host will truly understand if you cant't go. the word here is, you should inform ahead. you see, your slot has a price. meaning, the host spends for you, you become part of the budget and you don't like it when your resources are put to waste, do you?

so there, the biggest favor we can ever extend is to learn to respond to invitations. it saves us the money, the effort, and the expectations. today, you're a guest... tomorrow, you become the host. and who wants empty parties? remember, what goes around comes around.


Note: this post has reference to.... ahhh, nevermind!